Do you feel neglected or abandoned? Has your spouse
stopped communicating to you? Are you suspicious of your spouse having an
affair? Are you feeling suicidal because of your falling marriage? The answer
to all these questions can provide by only you.
You decide your own fate. Don’t believe in that hocus pocus about finding your
soul mate, about how your destinies are entwined with each other. If your unfaithful,
cheating spouse,
is continuously having an affair with someone else, leave her! Period.
Most people don’t know how to react when they find
their loved one cheating on them with someone else. The fact is you shouldn’t
get all fussed up about it. If your partner doesn’t love you and never had, he/she
was never meant for you. One such incident happened that shook the foundations
of adultery. A man named Joe was very content with his life. He had a stable
job, wonderful parents, a nice house and the most significant thing of all; a
brilliant wife. Joe loved her tremendously and she loved him back. On the trip
back from their honeymoon, Joe became extremely distracted by work. Joe’s wife,
however, took up her duty as a housewife. She did all the household chores and
looked after Joe’s sick mother. She used to wait every evening for Joe to get
back from work and tell her how her day was.
Joe at first listened to his wife with open ears. However, work had
overcome him and he was forced to “hit the hay”. The couple’s sex life had declined since Joe
was tired every single day from work. Joe’s wife felt neglected, she did not
understand Joe was working hard only to provide for her and their family. She
became a pessimist and started having absurd thoughts. She started using the
internet to pass the time. One day, she
came across a dating site and became an active member of it. At first, it was
just harmless flirting but eventually, it turned into something much more. She
started clicking nude pictures of her sending it to strange men and demanded
the same from them. This went on for weeks. When Joe finally got a promotion
and his workload became lighter, he got more time to spend with his family. Joe
felt guilty for not spending time with his wife. He decided to make up for it.
Joe’s wife, however, remained busy in her virtual life with other men. Joe
became suspicious, when asked what she was doing on the computer; she merely
replied that she was checking new recipes to make. Joe was not convinced so he
checked her computer while she was away. A shrivel went down Joe’s spine when
he opened the internet to find dating websites. Joe hoped he was not a victim
of a cheating spouse.
Joe held his
breath and looked more. Fortunately, Joe’s wife hadn’t logged out of one
website. He checked her messages and to his surprise, what he found made him
devastated. Apparently, Joe’s wife was deciding to meet up with another man
whose name was also Joe. Joe confronted his wife and she finally spilled the
beans. She said she could not take it anymore that she was leading a one sided
relationship. She needed to satisfy her desires wanted somebody to be there for
her. Joe was in utter shock that his spouse was really a cheating spouse.
Joe’s wife left him afterwards which was too much for him. He became so
depressed that he started having sleepless nights. To get rid of his pain, he
started overdosing on sleeping pills. He died after a week. In a few months,
Joe’s wife is marrying the guy she met whose name was also Joe. They have sent
an invitation card to Joe’s sick mother.
In the end, this shows how love can be cruel and
deceitful. It was both of the parties fault. Joe had good intentions working
late but he should have also spent some time with his wife. Moreover, Joe’s
wife should have waited and should not have taken a reckless decision. If you
find you have a cheatingspouse that does not see reason, you should chuck them away from
your life.
