You
just witnessed your friend’s partner cheating on him/her and hope the same will
never happen to you. You cannot only rely on hope. Love is mysterious in its
own way and you never know when your love might stray away from you. A cheating spouse brings numerous problems, not only emotional, but financial and social as well.
However, you can stop your partner from having second thoughts about you by
just following these simple techniques.
First
of all, your partner may give off signs months before she finally cheats on
you. You should be well aware of those signs so as to avoid problems in the
future. Your partner will seek attention from you. Your partner will have the
sudden desire to talk to you or to be comforted by you. These are all signs
that you have been neglecting your partner recently. Soon, your partner will
feel lonely and start being a pessimist. So make sure you play your part in the
relationship and spend adequate time with them. It is not that hard to get
distracted by work, friends or chores. You should be more involved in your
partner’s work social life. Your partner should feel that you have your
priorities set and that relationship comes first.
Secondly, you should be well
informed of your partner’s friend circle. You should also pay attention if
he/she mentions any co-worker that he/she admires. Moreover, it is highly
likely that if your partner’s social circle consists of people who have cheated
on their partners in the past; your partner too will be tempted. To prevent
this, you should find new friends for your spouse without hurting their
sentiments. Mingle with happily married couples. Your partner will envy them
and strive for a better relationship. If
you don’t take proper action with your partner’s friends then you will give
birth to a cheating spouse.
Lovemaking
also plays a crucial role in having a cheating spouse. If your mate feels that you
are not compassionate enough during sexual intercourse, they will start to feel
you cannot fulfil their deep desires. Passionate sex is the key to a healthy
relationship. Make your lovemaking exciting for your partner. This can be done
with the help of intimate toys or by role-playing. A partner who takes little
interest in their sex life will make the other partner go out looking for a
substitute. Furthermore, honesty is the backbone of every relationship. If you
are honest with your loved one from the beginning, he/she will respond back
with the same gesture. Your loved one will rarely hide anything from you from
thereon. Moreover, a spouse should not nag or control his/her partner’s life.
They should give enough liberty so that your loved one does not feel
threatened. For example, a wife complaining about her partner’s diet will provoke
the partner in thinking that his/her life is being controlled. Cooking meals
for your partner, (the ones they prefer) will make them look forward to coming
home early.
In
conclusion, remember to look for signs when your spouse is becoming distant. To
avoid confusion in the future, make a stand against cheating in the beginning.
Love your partner to the fullest and be more involved in their life. There
might come a time when you will be too late and your cheating spouse will flutter away from
you. Moreover, you should not sound desperate if your loved one wants some
time-off. It shows you have very little confidence and it will just add to the
reason of them leaving you. Do not succumb to your feelings. Remain calm and
the universe shall tend to unfold as it should.
