Catch My Cheating Spouse In Singapore, Pay MyPrivate Investigator Fees: Once A Cheat, Always A Cheat?
Listening to conversations going on around me and reading blogs and magazine articles, it seems people are preoccupied with matters infidelity and deception. Modern day relationships have become too westernized and we seem to have thrown away the ways and values of old that our forefathers had. Most people blame the media for promoting infidelity and making it seem cool by the content they present to us. But what most people would like to know if you cheated once then you will always be a cheat. It is said that a tiger does not change its stripes, so if your spouse cheats on you, will he or she do it again? You have already made declarations and threats to everyone and anyone who cares to listen that catch mycheating spouse in Singapore, pay my private investigator fees. You already have the number of the private investigator you hired the first time your spouse cheated on speed dial, anticipating him or her to slip back into his or her cheating habits. You keep monitoring their movements and taking note of what your spouse says and does, the time they leave and come back and who they associate with. The lack of trust and paranoia will drive you crazy and you cannot possibly afford to put your private investigator on a retainer for the rest of your married life.
Listening to conversations going on around me and reading blogs and magazine articles, it seems people are preoccupied with matters infidelity and deception. Modern day relationships have become too westernized and we seem to have thrown away the ways and values of old that our forefathers had. Most people blame the media for promoting infidelity and making it seem cool by the content they present to us. But what most people would like to know if you cheated once then you will always be a cheat. It is said that a tiger does not change its stripes, so if your spouse cheats on you, will he or she do it again? You have already made declarations and threats to everyone and anyone who cares to listen that catch mycheating spouse in Singapore, pay my private investigator fees. You already have the number of the private investigator you hired the first time your spouse cheated on speed dial, anticipating him or her to slip back into his or her cheating habits. You keep monitoring their movements and taking note of what your spouse says and does, the time they leave and come back and who they associate with. The lack of trust and paranoia will drive you crazy and you cannot possibly afford to put your private investigator on a retainer for the rest of your married life.
There are many reasons why your spouse
would cheat and am sure that forgiving them for cheating on you takes a while
and requires a lot of patience and work. Building up the trust in your marriage
will take a while but it does not mean that if your spouse cheated once he or
she will cheat again. You cannot have your private investigator on the lookout
for any potential or real danger so that you can pounce on them, handing them
the bill with a note saying catch my cheating spouse in Singapore, pay my private
investigator fees. If you cannot let go of the hurt and pain and hold it
over your spouse head every single day, then it is better to just let go of the
relationship before incurring more bills and destroying any morsel of civility
that is left between you and your spouse. This is especially important if
children are involved as they are the main victims of a broken marriage. For
the sake of peace and harmony, do not stay in a relationship that you have no
hope of reconciling with your spouse.
Counselling a good start to establish
why your spouse cheated and what can be done to remedy the situation, that is
if you have decided to give him or her another chance. Most people, who are old
school like me, believe that marriage is forever and we need to work on it. A
marriage counsellor will help you talk over issues and concerns in your
marriage and get to the root of the problem. Maybe your wife cheated because
she felt neglected, maybe your husband cheated because your sexual libidos do
not rhyme, maybe you both cheated because you were dissatisfied with something
in the marriage. The ability for one to never cheat on their spouse again
depends with the reason why they cheated in the first place and how it was
resolved. It also depends on the spouse’s personal resolve on whether or not
they will cheat on you again. With a strong commitment and marriage as well as
individual counselling and support from the other spouse, a cheating spouse can
transform to a vey faithful husband or wife. But if your spouse has cheated on
more than one occasion, has promised to change his or her behaviour but never
has, then do yourself a favour and instead of paying the private investigator
bill time and again, simply give that cheating spouse the boot. And maybe if
you are the vengeful type you can always make numerous posters with his or her
picture, or take an advert on the national paper reading: Caution!
Catch mycheating spouse in Singapore, pay my private fees. Maybe that would deter
your spouse from ever cheating again. That was just a wild thought but please,
do not take me up on that idea; unless you want to end up behind bars!
