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Wednesday, 1 August 2012

Catch My Cheating Spouse Singapore; Pay My PrivateDetective Fees: Real Life Stories



I will not regal you with all the dirty secrets and insights on how the people may have cheated or purported to have cheated on their significant other on this article. I will simply give you an excerpt of the cases handled by some private detectives in Singapore who are in my social circle. I will also not mention any names as a private detective is sworn to secrecy in all their professional undertakings. Trust and privacy are two of the words used most by a private detective and no client wants their privacy invaded or their business aired out in public for all and sundry to pass their judgements. The first account will illustrate the importance of contacting a private detective when you suspect your spouse of cheating. A wife had been suspecting her husband of having an affair with another woman. He had gotten a promotion at work and had to work extra hours in the first three months as he was handling an urgent project at work that had to deliver results by the end of the year. The wife had this nagging feeling that the husband might have been having an affair with the cute, younger personal assistant at work as he sometimes worked all night long. She was sure her instincts were not misleading her and decided against hiring a private investigator. May she wanted to avoid the CatchMy Cheating Spouse Singapore; Pay My Private Detective Fees drama as she was convinced she was right.

One day he came home with his coat smelling of a floral scented perfume. She made him supper and never uttered a single word. The following day during a board meeting, the wife stormed into the conference room and accused the personal assistant of fooling around with her husband. To cut a long story short, the boardroom confrontation led to the transfer of the husband to another branch; a broken marriage and fifteen years of companionship down the drain. The husband, being the gentleman he is, had been kind enough to offer the personal assistant his coat as it was a cold evening and they had to prepare for the board meeting. If the wife had taken time to investigate the facts instead of jumping into conclusions, she would still be a married woman right now. A private detective would have gathered all the information and evidence to support or disprove her suspicions. That was a case where ‘Catch My Cheating Spouse Singapore; Pay My Private Detective Fees’ moment was needed. You would rather pay a small fee to investigate your suspicions than lose all you have worked for in the marriage. The husband had to move to another branch because he was embarrassed. The personal assistant resigned and moved to another company as she felt none of her colleagues would respect her due to those accusations.

Trust can be equated to a glass vase. When it falls down and it is broken, you can do nothing to bring it back to its original state. You may glue it back together, but the cracks will be still visible and the vase will not be as strong as it was when you bought it. Trust works the same way. Once trust is broken, repairing it to the way it was before is a hard work and things will never be the same again. This can be illustrated by my second account. Women trust their men completely, especially if they have been married for more than twenty years. The couple in this case had been married for almost twenty five years. The man was a good husband, father and provider. The wife worked part time and was a good wife, mother and house keeper. Being married for that long, passion and romance may dwindle in the marriage. Unknown to his wife, the husband had a mistress for fifteen years of their twenty five year marriage. The wife was surprised when she was infected with Syphilis. She had been faithful all throughout her marriage and thought her gynaecologist got it all wrong. She decided to confront her husband who came clean and confessed to the affair. She still hired a private detective to find out if he only had only that one partner or he had many others. The private detective discovered that he had changed mistresses recently and that is how he got infected. The husband had promised to change his wayward ways and the wife gave him another chance. But at the back of her mind, questions arose concerning what else he has done or not be forthright about throughout the marriage. She did not look at him the same as she had lost trust in him. Needless to say, the mistrust is what led to the breakdown of the marriage. So before you go confronting your spouse or you need to get facts, please consult a private detective. You would rather shout ‘Catch My Cheating Spouse Singapore; Pay My Private Detective Fees’ than accuse your spouse or any other person falsely.